OK, OK, so here's the gist of this post. After my little kvetch session, I got a delightful comment from someone going by Friz. So, hello Friz, and thanks for reading and your delightful comment! I think I need to change up the hair. The bob--has been delightful fun, and it really has added an air of authority to an already-authoritative demeanor. However--the trims are maddening, this shit's gettin' thick and knotted, and I need to wear something that doesn't get caught in my glasses. IF I get this done anytime soon, I'll post pictures.
This also made me think--a lot of women hold onto the hair--the length, the color, the wave, the bounce, and all that delightful bullshit. But this is what gets me--a lot of these women, in my opinion, would look a helluva lot better--if they would just cut it off. Or at least cut it back, or wear it up, so you can see what a beautiful face she has. A lot of people say it's down to confidence. In my opinion, if you are a woman who works her own job, makes her own money, and digs her own vibe, why wouldn't you want the world to see you in all your fabulous glory? Does a woman's hair make her more feminine? Maybe, if that's her personal style and her personal vibe. What makes me feel more feminine and confident? My mind. The way I walk into a room and everyone turns to look. The way I can answer a question and quietly command attention, without even speaking. But I'd rather look someone in the eye straight on, rather than through my damn bangs.
Enjoy the musical interlude, Readers, while I make a decision. I'll post pictures.
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So many reasons. . . .