What This Dominant Woman Finds Attractive

I am writing this in response to a post found on a submissive man's blog.  Though I am not looking to publicly shame him, as I'm sure someone will over in his comments section, should they so choose to do that, I'm sure to many, either here or there, this may be exactly how it could be read.

The post was in regard to what he, as a submissive man, finds attractive in women.  I responded to him personally via his e-mail.  He keeps asking why I don't post my comments to his blog.

You want my response?  Here goes:

When it comes to what I find physically attractive, because I am a HUMAN, I tend to notice people's eyes first.  If I like what I see there (sharp contrast i. e. light eyes/dark skin and vice-versa, intelligence, sparkle, a tendency toward mischief), and if I see fit, I may approach him.  What I truly find attractive, though, is his submissiveness, whether he states it outright or I tease it out of him later.  I did mention the intelligence, didn't I?  Submissive men, in my experience, are more likely to congregate in quiet settings, such as libraries, art galleries, small coffee shops, book shops, and intimate restaurants, rather than run-of-the-mill bars or dance clubs.  They tend to move slowly, speak with intelligence and wit, and take great pains to make sure I (or, sometimes, She, if he's with someone) is comfortable.  I think Max Headroom may have quipped it best, as one point, back in the mire of the 80s:  "I get my kicks above the waistline, Sunshine."

PLEASE COMPREHEND AS BEST YOU CAN.  PLEASE WRAP YOUR WEE SUB-MIND AROUND THIS.  IF A MAN IS TRULY SUBMISSIVE, THEN HIS SUBMISSION WILL ALWAYS BE WHAT I FIND MOST ATTRACTIVE.

D'oh!  Now I'll have to post a comment, just to get this out of my system.

For your entertainment, however, please find attached two (two!) videos for your viewing pleasure--though I wish music video directors would stick with a small portion of reality in regard to truly office-appropriate attire.  You're welcome!

NeYo:  Miss Independent

. . .  because who doesn't love Aretha and Annie?

Just a Quick Follow-up

That last line Nicki spits in that video from my last post--"Couldn't get a fan if you was hangin' from the ceilin'."  So funny!

I don't care what people say about Nicki.  I think she's hilarious.

You know else I like--Li'l Kim.

Yeah, that's right, I love Li'l Kim.  Oh, I'm sorry, DID YOU NOT HEAR ME?  I LOVE AND ADMIRE LI'L KIM, THE RAPPER WHO MAKES WHITE PEOPLE NERVOUS AND WHO DISGUSTS THE AVERAGE MAN WITH HER BLATANTLY COMFORTABLE SEXUALITY AND CONFIDENCE.

Now I know you heard that.

And yes, I realize this isn't just a music blog.  However--if you want to get to know me, there are certain things that one may need to accept, such as my all-over-the-place musical taste.  I was going to post a video here, but can't find the one I like.  Oh well, guess you'll just have to wait.

What's Been Up So Far

Hey all, I have returned for now (for NOW) simply to say that YES, I AM ALIVE!  Oooooooooo and I bet somewhere there's a submissive quaking in his socks, whining, "She's baaaaaaaaaaaaaaack!  She's baaaaaaaaaaaack!"  and ready to piss himself (uh-uh--you take that mess outside, dog!).

So here's where I've been and what's been up.

After spending a lot of time knitting with nearly nothing but all-natural fibers and attempting (rather lamely) to spin, I've sort of gone on a natural kick.  Except this is more than just a kick.  I'm thinking this may be yet another lifestyle change, but for the good.  Of EVERYONE.  I've been trying to stay away from stuff with chemicals, and I've been trying to take walks, lift slightly heavier than usual (hard to do when you've somehow thrown your back out carrying computers), and generally relaxing a lot more than usual.

This has also gotten me thinking in regard to what I may be seeking in a submissive man, should one ever bother to look up from his pathetic wank-fest and stop fantasizing about what I could do with (or, more to the point, WITHOUT) his dick.  But I'm going to save that for a later post.  After all, I am still a woman.  I'm not giving it all away that easily.  In the meantime, please enjoy this wee video from Nicki Minaj and Ciara, in regard to how I'm feeling just now.